Vex money is now the latest trend on the rise: which i feel has come to stay. Since no one wants to hear stories that touch or be part of a form of embarrassment, it is best you learn to go out with some on every date possible. In fact, personally, I feel if you don’t have it, just gently stay put. Some perks attached to the practice of having your vex money are-

Your Mind Will Be Settled

The feeling you get is always nice when you know you can never be stranded. Should anything unexpected happen? You’ve got some extra cash not only to take yourself back home (if you do not have a car) but also to give yourself the fun expected on the date. It’s soothing and relaxing. It is not okay to assume you trust him well enough. Trust smart!!

You Will Be Ready for Anything

Going out with cash at hand prepares you for anything. Say the bruva decides he won’t pay or for some reason his card declines, or something: you would have to save the day. Always be ready!!

If He Actually ‘’VEX’’

So the name ‘’vex money’’ was actually gotten from the money you use to find your level if on an outing or date of some sort goes the other way.  Now that is the same thing I mean when I say if he actually vexes. If such misunderstanding arises, you could decide to storm out. But you can only do so when you have the cash to take yourself to where you brought yourself from. ‘’Vex money’’ isn’t just a name that was put there as it really means what it says. So I advise that as you go on that outing, hold some on the vex money in case someone gets vexed.

There Could Be a Change of Plans

During your outing, plans could change. This doesn’t mean you did not plan well or you are reckless but mistakes are bound to happen. In as much as we can plan it all and then have it all go as planned. It is therefore of high importance that you try your best possible to not let the tilt in plan get you down. A little cash at hand could go a long way in helping out with some of these plans. You can never be too careful.

In conclusion, it is key to have some cash with you when you feel the need to go out on a date, an outing or anywhere generally. It’s better safe than sorry.

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Doing Something Extra

When you open the door to let her in, bring her a bouquet of roses or just do something beyond her expectation that would earn you her admiration. Be creative, you could also bring her a first day gift!

Respecting Her Every Move, Being Courteous

Always remember that observing proper manners is Important. Play by all the etiquette rules, do not leave out any. Be pleasant with your comment and jokes. Never play down on her feelings, opinions, comments and suggestions. Do not try funny jabs at her. Have respect for time, do not enforce your meal choice on her. Ladies always give attention to details; never forget that she is listening to what you are /not doing.

Paying Your Date compliments

How much ladies love to be complimented! Pay your date lovely compliments. Make her/him feel good. Something about his/her appearance would interest you. No amounts of compliment is too much. Whether admitted or not, an ample amount of time was put into looking good for the date, applaud the effort.

Being Interested in Your Date

Being curious about your date, makes him or her feel needed. Get to know all you can in one night. Know her Likes and dislike. Do not just get carried away by your experiences, let her know that you care and would like to be committed to her. Your intentions should be to keep the conversation flowing, do not steal the moment and make the evening yours alone. Ensure there are no few awkward pauses; just don’t make it an interview.

Being Too Forward

Never be too forward or aggressive. No lady likes a guy that wants to be everywhere. When a guy takes his time to access the situation and offer help in crisis during the date time.

Leaving an Impression

You may decide to crown the night with a special touch, when you leave a lasting impression that would make the date an unforgettable one. It would make the time out a wonderful time and make your date feel how lucky she was to spend some time with you.

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