Relationships whether romantic or casual are one important aspect of living. No man is an island, we are social beings: relationships keep us sane. However in building a beautiful relationship, all parties involved have significant roles to play. In the case of a failed romantic relationship, there is a need to take a pause and look out for things that caused the breakup and then prevent a recurrence before going into the next relationship. Below are the things you need to do that would attract a beautiful relationship your way:
Take Charge of Your Life
Be organized in every way and at all times. Plan your day ahead. Your time and life is very precious, take it seriously. Organize everything; it makes you a good manager. Planning and organizing your time makes you more confident and attractive.
Be Your Own Person
You only get to live once, Live that Life to the fullest. It’s your life. Become your own person. Know your strengths and weaknesses. Improve on them and be better for yourself. You have to be responsible for yourself before accepting the responsibility for another. Do not live life trying to please your partner first. List out the personality traits you would like to have and begin cultivating them.
Live Your Life
Your life is beautiful. Live your life and enjoy living it. You only get to attract someone else into your life when you love your life and you are excited about living it. Being excited makes you glow; and it is that glow that draws people in. You won’t need to go looking for love. When your life is so much fun, love will find you. Do things that make you happy and get you excited for each new day. Look forward to doing things/ being with people that make life pleasant for you.
Chase Your Dreams
Going for that thing you are passionate about also makes your life interesting. Learn a skill: could be baking, sewing, swimming or anything that interests you. You could also learn a new language. Identify the dream and passion, it doesn’t matter what it may be, get busy doing it. It will pay off on the long run.
Never Look Back
Keep pushing forward. Do not even think about dwelling in the past. We all have that one thing or two we would love to wish away. Learn the things, allow them make you better but never carry around the baggage (pain, regret, sorrows) from the past. Look beyond, carry your shoulders high, and believe you are the queen you truly are.
Girl, you have got to take good care of yourself: you worked hard for the money, you earned it now you have got to spend it! Pamper yourself, look good, and feel good. Nobody can take care of you like you do yourself.
Acknowledge that people exists. Embrace and welcome people in. We all have our uniqueness and flaws: love people wholly for who they are. Be Friendly, polite and nice. Create beautiful relationships with people where comfort and love is key.
When you live by the principles above, unconsciously you wouldn’t know when that beautiful relationship will happen. Unknowingly you are creating an atmosphere to attract the right person to you. Happiness attracts same. Be happy, you would be shocked that in no time will the beautiful relationship find you.