If you have not read the last article on the ‘X’ topic, check here. Done that? Now let’s take a look at the topic for today, shall we? The bedroom subject is so broad, a thousand and one articles might simply scratch the surface. There is so much more to this topic than passion or desire. From the seen to the unseen, there are many layers to this matter.
For one, the couple’s state of mind and physical fitness play major roles in making the experience worthwhile among other factors. While the ‘Not Adding Up’ article takes a look at the factors that are likely to water down the total bedroom experience, this one will teach you how to get the spark back like it never left.
Here are five ways to get your bedroom life back on track:
1. Exercise
This activity involves every part of the body and soul. But the body plays a major part in this whole affair. Getting into form ahead of private action is no easy feat, it is all about keeping fit every other day. It begins with the little things and builds up into a wholesome experience for both parties. Exercise leaves the participants refreshed and strong. There are a number of activities that would pass for exercise. Walking, skipping, and running all fall into the category of exercise.
Doing any of these on certain days of the week is a great way to get the blood flowing in the right direction while keeping the right muscles tight and stretched. The heart also benefits from the activity as a healthy heart is a good tool for bedroom matters. Guess what? This also creates a spark bond between you and your partner as working out together at home or at the gym may be a great foundation for private activity. Think about it.
2. Therapy
While the previous point addresses the physical bit, there is so much more to this matter than that. If there has been some form of miscommunication, breakdown or trauma around this experience, working with a sexual expert is a good way to carefully consider the journey, make some adjustments and rebuild the sparks that have gone cold. A therapy session goes from probings to conversations that focus on the issues without judgement which could be a great foundation for a more enjoyable encounter. Couples who have gone through therapy sessions with an open mind and highly recommended therapists usually return better than ever. If you have been experiencing some downtime in the X department, you may want to try this out with your significant other. Consider it!
3. Mindfulness
In a world where many people practise escapism from reality by daydreaming or using their mobile devices, mindfulness is the key to embracing life at the moment and becoming more aware of what is right in front of you. Simply put, it is the art and act of living in the present. Now if you struggle with the need to constantly block out immediate moments and events, this might affect how you relate and communicate with your partner. This, in turn, creates a barrier that prevents intimacy from happening naturally, leaving you and your significant other drifting in opposite directions physically, mentally and sexually. There are certain exercises that promote mindfulness. One of these is meditation, the art of focusing on one thought at a time and taking deep breaths. This helps you centre yourself while giving your mind the power to embrace one moment at a time.
Exploring mindfulness does not only help you process activities and memories better, but it also helps you remain sensitive to the needs of the people around you at certain points in time. This also means a sharper mind and another chance to experience moments with your partner. You do not need a specialist to tell you the positive effect this could have on your bedroom matters. Try it out today!
4. Privacy
If you have little children or relatives living with you, you probably already know how a lack of this element can create tension and impede healthy communication between you and your significant other. Living with other people whether big or little is already challenging, making bedroom activities better in the face of external elements in the form of people is an even bigger challenge for couples. However, a simple way to rekindle the fire is to go somewhere private with your significant other for some hours, days or even weeks, depending on what you can afford. Doing this does not only come with a breath of fresh air, it also gives you room to bond and explore other activities without distractions. Ever explored this option? Tell us how it improved your relationship by leaving a comment.
5. Meals
Yes, meals. It is not enough to put anything you like into your belly. It takes careful meal planning and selection to get value for what you consume. What you eat is a good determinant of how you act and respond to external stimuli afterwards. Thankfully, working with an expert such as a dietician or nutrition specialist may be the missing link between feeling tired and firing on all cylinders in this department. From eating the right fruits to paying attention to balanced diet options and eating at the right time of the day, there is so much difference your meals can make as it concerns experiencing satisfaction in the bedroom.
Now that you know what to do differently, you may want to make the necessary changes in order to make progress in your relationship. You are advised to consult experts to get the best out of the options available to you. Remember to like, comment and share this article with the people who need them.
The next article takes wholesome living to a whole new level. It will teach you how to improve the quality of your life and experience a more peaceful life. Look out for it!